Memorial Day falls on the last
Monday of May and is a day to remember ancestors, family members, loved ones,
friends, and neighbors who have given the ultimate sacrifice: dying in wars. Initially
known as Decoration Day, it originated in the years following the Civil War and
became an official federal holiday in 1971. Many Americans observe Memorial Day
by visiting cemeteries or memorials, holding family gatherings and participating
in parades.
Memorial Day is now celebrated at
Arlington National Cemetery with a ceremony in which a small American flag is
placed on each grave. It is also customary for the president or vice-president
to give a speech honoring the contributions of the dead and lay a wreath at the
Tomb of the Unknown Soldier. About 5,000 people attend the ceremony annually.
Now the battle hymns are playing, report of shots not far
away
No prayer, no promise, no hand of God could save their souls that April day
Tell their wives that they fought bravely as they lay them in their graves
As the train pulled in the station and the families gathered ‘round
You could hear the first car echo with a loud triumphant sound
But the last car it was silent, they listened close but they couldn’t hear
It was laden down with coffins, that didn't speak and couldn’t cheer
No prayer, no promise, no hand of God could save their souls that April day
Tell their wives that they fought bravely as they lay them in their graves
As the train pulled in the station and the families gathered ‘round
You could hear the first car echo with a loud triumphant sound
But the last car it was silent, they listened close but they couldn’t hear
It was laden down with coffins, that didn't speak and couldn’t cheer
~ Dropkick Murphys
from “Broken Hymns”
The reason we observe the Memorial
Day holiday is to pay tribute to those who have passed on while preserving the
peace for our nation, so that we can enjoy the blessings of freedom and liberty.
Thank you, each and every one of you.
I
would also like to take a moment to honor some of my family and friends that
have passed on – people that I think of frequently.
I
will miss the guys that I worked with at Koos – Larry, Cecil, Jesse, Ziggy and
Gary. They were all part of a very special fraternity.
Kathy
and Karen were two wonderful ladies that were taken from this world much too
early. I was blessed to be have been their friend while they were still with
us.
Uncle
Dino and Uncle Jimmy were two of the kindest people that I ever had the honor
of knowing. I will never forget sobbing outside of Holy Rosary Church after
Uncle Jimmy’s funeral while hugging his son David.
On
the Matrisch side of my family, there is Grandma ‘Trisch, Uncle Eddie, Uncle
Wayne and his son Davie. My cousin Davie was a kind soul that also left this
earth tragically at a young age. They are gone but will never be forgotten.
Members
of the Vagnoni clan that are no longer with us are Grandma and Grandma ‘Noni,
Auntie Bay and my cousin John Dean. It’s hard to describe how closely knit the
Vagnoni family is. It is a true blessing to be a part of it.
Growing
up, John Dean was like my third brother. We played, fought and got in trouble
together. Twice we unwittingly attempted to burn down the family “cottage” at
Camp Lake. Fortunately, we were unsuccessful. Unfortunately he is no longer
here to laugh about those days.
I
have fond memories of all these precious people. They each played a role in my
life, some more than others. They are all missed very dearly, but none quite as
much as the most beautiful man I ever knew – my Dad. I can’t put into words how
much I miss him. It hurts too much when I try. I love you so much, Dad.
Dear God, please remember
our brothers and sisters who have gone to their rest in the hope of rising
again; may you bring them and all the departed into the light of your presence.
Have
a happy and blessed Memorial Day and please remember why we celebrate this
holiday. Until next time…from the booth.
